[image: Hannah Pool with her father (in the middle wearing a hat) and other family members in Eritrea.]Hannah Pool with her father (in the middle wearing a hat) and other family members in Eritrea.
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Hannah Pool in Eritrea
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*(CNN)* -- For years, all Hannah Pool knew was that her biological parents had died shortly after her birth.
An Eritrean-born girl adopted as an infant by a British academic, Pool found herself spending her first years in Norway before landing in the UK at the age of seven.
At times, she remembers, growing up in the northwest English city of Manchester as a Norwegian-speaking black girl with a white father was a source of confusion for people around her.
"When I was walking down the street holding my dad's hand, people would
sometimes check that he wasn't sort of taking me, that he wasn't kidnapping
me," says Pool, who today is a writer and journalist in the UK.
"There were lots of incidents like that which actually are just part of my
upbringing, part of my DNA almost -- I'm used to having to explain myself,
explain what I'm doing in the room, explain my relationship, whether it's
with my dad or my brother or my sister," she adds.
Discovering an unknown family
But a few years later, Pool's already unconventional life took an even more
astonishing twist.
An upbringing of discovery
Reunited with an unknown family
Almost two decades after she left the Eritrean orphanage where she was adopted, Pool received a letter from the east African country informing her that her father was alive and well, living back home with her brothers and sister.
The news left the then 19-year-old Pool reeling.
"It was a complete shock," she recalls. "And it wasn't a creeping thing like
'maybe you have a cousin' or 'maybe you have an aunt' -- it was like BAM!
'you have a father,' BAM! 'here are your brothers and here's your sister,'"
she says.
"My head went into a spin, I didn't know what to do or how I was supposed to
respond to this -- was I supposed to get on a plane and go to Eritrea, was I
supposed to go back to all the people who I told my story to and tell them
'actually that story is not right, this story is right' and the whole sense
of the story of me was just pulled from beneath me like a rug."
Shocked by the revelation, Pool initially decided to ignore it and continue her university studies in Physiology.
But the thought she had a large family living in Eritrea was always with her
"as a kind of an itch." So about 10 years later Pool felt that she had to
get on a plane and travel to her birthplace.
Meeting her father and the rest of her family for the first time face-to-face was "incredibly emotional," says Pool. At the same time however, it was completely different to what she had expected.
"It was almost like an outer-body experience -- I watched myself go in the
room, I was quite detached, I was surprised."
"The thing that hit me the most was the language and I hadn't prepared for
that -- I had prepared for this beautiful reunion where everybody looked the
same as me and we all kind of connect immediately.
"And it wasn't like that and the main barrier at the time was the language."
Pool quickly understood that her European upbringing was marking her as different in her birthplace, in a similar way that her Eritrean background was singling her out in the UK.
"I thought I'm going to feel at home with everyone and initially that's how
I felt -- I stepped off the plane and thought 'wow, I'm at home, this is
where I belong,' but I realized very quickly that actually I do stand out
from everyone."
Since then, Pool has visited Eritrea three times. She describes her
relationship with her family there as a "work in progress" and has started
learning Tigrinya -- the local language -- in order to help her have a
"normal family relationship."
A talented writer, Pool documented her journey to trace her family in a book entitled "My Father's Daughter," a project that took about a year to complete.
"I wrote the book that I wish had been around when I was tracing myself,"
she says. "There are a lot of books about adoption but usually it's from the
point of view of the parents, there's very little from the point of view of
the adoptees ... and I think it's important to get the debate they're in
from their perspective."
An emotional memoir, Pool says the hardest part was not writing the book but going through the whole experience -- initially, she was afraid of how her fathers would respond to the book but in the end they were both very proud and supportive, she says.
"Both reactions were the best reactions I could possibly hope for," she
says.
An extract of the book was also published in Tigrinya in an Eritrean newspaper.
"That was amazing to see," says Pool. "To see that my family were able to
read an extract of my book on their own language -- that was a really proud
moment for me, that was incredibly important for me, and they were really
amazing about it."
Today, Pool proudly describes herself as British-Eritrean and says she would love to make the African country her home one day.
"I'm proud to be Eritrean and that's something that has come with time, with
tracing and knowing where I'm from."
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